Let Love Shines within - 1: A to Z of How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You

Have you ever felt that you have crush on someone but he/she is not just that into you? And you did not get second chance to make your crush your own. These kinds of things happen to everybody either in earlier or in later stage of life. We just forget the case and think that I already got better, don’t be hasty now or we think about finding another. But sometime a little serious case comes up when someone has fall in love but somehow unable tell him/her and lost the chance. Now nothing left other than to regret for it.

I would like to represent the key factors to make your crush to fall in love you. So that, from now if you will find any similar situation, you will get your crush without any problem. Some points may look like odd at first touch of your eyes but if you want someone, you need to come out from your cave to change yourself a little bit. As necessity is the mother of invention, cause is father of the change. So, who really need someone in his/her life can easily follow the guidelines. Let’s imagine, your dream person is standing in front of you, now get on his/her knees, with open arms & having bunch of red roses in one hand and propose him/her by saying the three magical n wonderful words “I love you sweet heart, will you be my love of my life?” Now you will be OK with following steps.

A. Homework is Good for Everything

I understand that love is not a subject of school but every task will be much easier if you do a little bit homework. It gives two advantages. First, it will make you more knowledgeable about your interest and second, you can use this proper knowledge at proper time to have a perfect output according to your expectation.

a. Find out Things He/She Likes About Opposite Sex

This is the primary thing you need to know. Imagine, you are going to buy mobile phone and find a new model packed in box. If on the box, it displays a classical keypad and you have habit of touch screen, you will not ask to show the phone. The same condition applies here. If you don’t know his/her turn off and turn on. There is much possibility to get rejected on initial stage and we don’t want it.

Other things you will come to know automatically if you will know this, so we do not discuss them here.

B. Law of Attraction: Visualize Him/Her to Love You

This one thing you can do even if you haven’t found someone. But this is one of the most effective things to get love if you do it in right way. Don’t worry; you just need to do this…. After closing the eye, visualize you and your love sitting in a under a tree and enjoying a romantic date. Feel the breeze in the air, feel his/her voice saying, “Oh, I love you so much.” Feel the happiness as you get proposed by your dream person. If possible remember your romantic rhythm. Just remember this feeling and rememorize with same in every few days.

Apply C to T simultaneously. It’s the time to have fun. This is the main core part you need to do to get noticed and to get liked.

C. Hang Around a Lot... But Than Be Unavailable

A simple rule, what you see that you notice, nothing else. If I will see a girl continuously for 6 months passing from my street, I will surely notice her without giving preference to face and looks. And if suddenly she would not pass from my street for even a week, she would hang around in my mind for whole week.

D. Don't Do Nice Things For Them; Let Them Do Nice Things For You.

From the ancient time, humans have a habit of not to consider what you get automatically and feel a lot if you do it voluntarily. If you will praise your crush, definitely your attempt will not do any addition in your love account. Let him/her do it for you, it will definitely make an addition in your love account.

E. Give Them The Eye

Oh, now mind game starts. Imagine if you are a man and a beautiful lady gazing in your eyes constantly, what you will feel and understand? You got my point. This thing really works. This is very effective and really successful trick for a good start.

F. Just Don’t remove your eye

When you get the chance to talk with your crush in group, do not concentrate on any other. If someone else is speaking then give a little eye to others and keep your main focus on your guy/girl. It will pass a message that you like him/her. Don’t worry; nothing bad will happen. If you do not give order in restaurant; you will not get food even if you will pay for what you will eat. The same case is here. So bluntly show your Interest.

G. Be Yourself… Be Different …

I am not a great actor and neither you will be if you will like someone and he/she is in front of you. You cannot make someone to realize you or feel you with a mask on your face. Just be what you are, don’t pretend to be someone. Trust me; you will lost him/her by doing that. OK, Do one thing; Find me from the crowd of 1000 person with photo in my bio of hub page. You simply cannot do that but if I have something different like 5 inch ears? You will find me. I am not telling you to have duplicate ears but what I am telling you is to have something different in yourself. Don’t go with the flow; you will get noticed.

H. Have A Life… Be Witty…

Fake happiness cannot make you happy; it must come from deepest point of your heart. If you are facing some bad time; do not let it cover your existence. Do the following for 5 days you will feel the change. Remember things like a small child smiling at you and making funny noises. Play most romantic and happiest songs of your playlist and sing with the song. If possible look at setting and rising sun; far from the crowd. Your time will change definitely but you need to do it for 5 days. The above thing is out of topic but it is really miraculous. Have some fun in day to day life. Use your sense of humor; it will make you a ‘likable’ material. It is proven that 86% ladies having sense of humor; get noticed and get liked in first meeting. Same is true for man, do it.

I. Put a Mystery Magnet…

If you already know the story of any movie; you will not much interested while watching it in theater. Psychology says that person will be attracted to what is hidden, it’s human nature. I can tell you; this trick works perfectly. Just don’t tell everything; put some broken links. Let him/her find out about you. It will make you more valuable.

J. Optimize Your Appearance …

Let us recall the box of that mobile phone. But if box is so dirty and looking so rubbish, you will not ask the shop-man to open the box and show you the phone. You will not even think about that phone. The same case is here. Your homework will help you here. Get some good look and put some impression.

K. Listen, Listen and Listen …

You just need to do one thing to let your crush open him/her heart to you. You need to listen him/her. If I talk about my case my girl likes to speak, our good relation starts from this point. Every, every person like if someone likes to listen him/her. Just give a stage to get your place in heart. It’s that simple.

L. Girls, Laugh a Lot… Boys, Smile a lot…

I don’t like a person if he/she has no smile. On the other hand I can be intimated quickly if someone is more talkative and having fun a lot form normal things. Especially boys like a girl more if she is laughing frequently. Girls like a boy more if he has cute smile. Simple thing and easy to follow!

M. Do Not Overreact!

Just be conscious that you may not lose your originality or you may not lose your natural attitude. Overreact can be a big turn off and will responsible for sinking of your titanic in the middle of the sea.

N. Have An Attitude…

Simple is good but no one will be attracted to simple. There are some people fond of simplicity but it’s your luck if you find that kind of person for you. So if you don’t have an attitude than make some attitude. I am not telling you to be different than what you are, what I am saying you is; a little attitude is necessary in a practical life. And it’s a good turn on for lots of people.

O. Take Advantage of your mutual Friends With Him/Her

As we have seen in life of Mark Zuckerberg(founder of Facebook), social network have a major impact if you use it in correct way. Use mutual friends; it’s a good way to communicate indirectly.

P. Be Sweet Spoken…

If I will write the entire thing in an insulted way, will you give me good feedback? If you have no looks but if you are sweet spoken, still you have chance for a beautiful lady/handsome man.

Q. Smile And Compliment him/her

Three days ago a traffic police caught me and I didn’t have PUC (Pollution Under Control) certificate for my vehicle. He was going to charge me for that but appreciation and smile did rest of all. If an on duty policeman got this effect, think about a person you know.

R. Let Them Feel Manly!/ Let Her Feel You Impressed!

It’s another way of appreciation. Without saying a single word, you can make place in his/her mind. If someone will do automatically want you want, why not to do this?

S. Be Supportive Of His Interests…

Now its time to be a person of his/her type. This will dig down roots of your friendship with him/her. And there will be much possibility that he/she will start to like you. Just take Interest, give compliment with smile and let him feel manly or let her feel you are Impressed. Use Q,R & S together and see the magical result.

T. Be Trustworthy …

I cannot decide to be with a person if he/she in not trustworthy. Insecurity will ruin the entire positive thing. So be trustworthy otherwise your all effort will become ineffective.

U. Flirt it up…

Now use your power to flirt with him/her. Now he/she will also like to do the same with you. Don’t be panic if adult jokes start in group, enjoy it and just look at him/her while laughing. This can be a good sign that you are ready for a new relationship. And trust me if you will do all above things nicely, you will get a grand success in this step.

V. Initiate Physical Contact …

In any topic if you find a chance to touch him/her. Don’t miss it now. This will make him/her feel the love. This is the right time to attack on his/her heart. Do it normally and casually and gaze him/her in the eye. If you both are alone, no one can stop your partner to kiss you for the first time. No need of the following for makes him/her fall in love with you.

W. Give Him Freedom …/ Don’t Give Her Much Freedom...

This is caution point! If you will not let him/her give the space, you will invite a turn off. A man wants freedom and cannot allow you to ride on his freedom. A woman also wants it but if you give total freedom, she will consider as you have no care for her. So don’t give much freedom to a woman IN INITIAL stage.

X. Let Him Call You …/ Do The Honor And Call Her…

Now don’t hesitate for anything, do call if you are a man. Now this is the condition of both like each other but who will start the interaction first? If you are a man than please you should start it, it will show your care and affection for the woman. But if you are woman than let him does it for you. Than you will get the exact response what you want from a man.

Y. Make The Best Of Your Assets

This is the last attack you can do on one’s heart. Just use your assets to make him fall in love with you. If you are not that beautiful than it ok, still you will make an impact on your man, because you are not meeting him for the first time. If you are not that handsome, it’s really OK, you don’t need to be. No need of any kind of bodybuilding but just make the best of what you are and let your love to love you.

Z. Patience is a Virtue

Above all, this is the most important thing one need to understand. Doesn’t matter how madly you want your love but you cannot make him/her to love you instantly. If you feel sad and quit than you will never get him/her. So just keep patience and do the above all things as much as you can. You will get success without any problem. And if you find that this formula is not working, than find out where you did mistake. Correct it and you will get your love.

This is the first part of let loves shines within. Which guide you for how to make a guy/girl fall in love with you. Now in the second part I will tell you how to have eternal love with your love.

If you are already in any relationship then I think you like the second part. Take a look...Let love shines within- 2: Make him/her fall in love with you again and for forever

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